Love Yourself

Loving yourself is making decisions that allow you to make the most of the experience and your life. Will Smith did an IG story over the weekend talking about how our likes and dislikes or our needs and fears will only keep us where we are but if we want change we have to focusContinue reading “Love Yourself”

Day 3 of Kwanzaa

Ujima is collective work and responsibility. I sometimes feel like this should have been ‘ubuntu’ instead. Basically, I’m not competing against anyone cause if you win so do I. There is a saying that if you are the smartest in the room, you are in the wrong room. It sounds good but I could neverContinue reading “Day 3 of Kwanzaa”

Day 2 of Kwanzaa

Kujichagulia is a mouthful yet fitting for its meaning. Having the fortitude to control the narrative around, about and within you. It truly takes self determination to hold your space in the world. This is my favorite Kwanzaa principle because it’s strong, unapologetic and self assured like all the ballsy women I admire like HarriettContinue reading “Day 2 of Kwanzaa”